Hi. We’re still on a skip week, the main podcast will be back next week, but as we’ve now reached a point in the podcast where more of the people discussed are living than dead, I’d just like to say something, and make a request.
I’ve seen several people asking people mentioned in the podcast if they’re listeners, on Twitter and other social media, and I would very much rather people stop doing that. Please don’t tag any living subjects of my podcast episodes into tweets about those episodes. I can’t stop you, of course, and I’m not meaning to shame anyone who has, as they’ve done it for the best of reasons, but it makes me extremely uncomfortable.
I’ve had people take offence before at things I’ve written about their work which I didn’t intend to be offensive. Creative people will often focus on a single negative aside in what is otherwise a wall of praise, and it can cause them real upset.
I can’t stop any subjects of podcast episodes from listening to them, but the podcast is not ultimately for them.
The very best case scenario is that knowing those people are going to hear the podcast makes me uncomfortable and restricts what I say, making the podcast less good. The worst-case scenario is someone takes legal action because of something I’ve said, and the podcast has to end altogether.
But mostly, I just know that if someone I’ve talked about is going to listen to my podcast, there’s a good chance that they’ll pick up on one casual remark I didn’t even think about and ruminate about it all day. And I don’t want to make people I admire have bad days.
So please, do keep telling your friends about the podcast, but don’t tell the stars I talk about. I know you all mean well when you do it, but it can cause far more harm than good.